Every Human is unique in attributes and character, your plans,aspirations, ambitions and targets may vary as compared to someone else.
Unless someone had been in your situation before, it will be very difficult to tell exactly how you feel in a particular situation.
Don’t expect everyone to understand you and no matter how hard you try to explain yourself to them, they will always not understand you.
The best you can do is to understand yourself and act according to the understanding you have of yourself and you will  do a lot of good to yourself.
Have a graceful day 😊 😊 😊